Maggie loves canine poop. Consuming it, that’s. She is an obsessive coprophagic, particularly in winter, when any poop not discovered and picked up turns into a poopsickle. It’s thought of a traditional conduct in canines, and a disgusting conduct to us primates, whose solely use the feces of others to throw it when indignant, or fertilize our fields if no different different. Just a few days in the past, Maggie was gulping poop, I stated “depart it,” which has labored much less and fewer typically, and she or he simply gulped sooner. I used to be drained, no, exhausted, sick to my abdomen with stress about Skip, (extra on that later), chilly, and out of gasoline. Maggie additionally likes to kiss us on the face, whereas I’m averse to poop breath and shit smeared on my cheek. A recipe for a break down in good canine coaching.
So I grumped at her, went again to the home feeling unhappy about it and like a failure as a canine coach. And on Nationwide Canine Coaching Month, no much less. Nonetheless, the following morning I learn an article in regards to the commencement speech of tennis nice, Roger Federer. Federer has gained each main match he’s performed a number of instances, and was the #1 ranked participant for 237 weeks in a row. He’s thought of the tennis GOAT by many. Provided that, what number of pictures do you suppose he gained to win these matches? Reply? 54%. That’s not quite a bit. Simply barely over half. Someway, that data buoyed me. Maybe the best tennis participant of all time barely wins the totality of his makes an attempt. The message was easy: Failure is inevitable. What issues is to be taught from it and transfer on.
Granted, canine coaching will not be like tennis. Canines usually are not our opponents. We aren’t presupposed to be “successful” something, besides maybe an incredible relationship with our canines. No person counts up factors on the finish of the day. Or, can we? How typically can we float on the magic carpet of a wonderful recall, the proper agility run, the kickass work your canine did on the sheepdog trial? However how typically can we castigate ourselves for messing up–giving the flawed cue, not being who you need to be, each second of on a regular basis?
All of this feels particularly related, as a result of it’s Nationwide Canine Coaching Month, “a marketing campaign began by the Affiliation of Skilled Canine Trainers (APDT) to advertise optimistic reinforcement coaching for constructing communication, confidence, and a robust bond between canines and their house owners, particularly helpful after vacation adoptions.”
Each good coach and behaviorist is aware of the worth of optimistic reinforcement, R+, however we nonetheless have an extended method to go to unfold the phrase to most people. Developments come and go; proper now there’s a tendency the place I reside for folks to seek out fast fixes–board and practice corporations that use electrical collars, for instance. What might be completed with R+ is at least miraculous. Right here, for instance, is Skip getting his Optimmune ointment to deal with his panus, an immune-related eye illness that may trigger blindness with out therapy, each day for the remainder of his life. Ointments usually are not drops–it’s far more durable for a canine to simply accept an ointment than a liquid you drop into their eyes. And it stings slightly too, not less than did once I tried it on my eyes.
However treating Skip is simple, as a result of I used R+, super-powered by Chirag Patel’s Bucket Recreation.
Nothing about that is significantly spectacular. No fancy methods, simply the usage of R+ in husbandry and administration coaching, utilizing what we find out about studying to create an excellent relationship between members of two species who typically battle to reside collectively in concord.
It jogs my memory of two issues associated to January as “Canine Coaching Month:” One is the significance of taking a breath when your canine does one thing problematic, getting out of your head (“I’m a failure!”), enthusiastic about the context (or antecedent), the conduct itself, the consequence of the conduct, after which brainstorming what to do about it as a substitute of feeling pissed off, or worse, helpless.
Maggie’s coprophagia offered me a possibility to do exactly that. After a morning of reflection, I spotted I had all of the instruments I wanted to take care of the issue. Maggie has an incredible nostril and loves utilizing it to seek out toys, and something she will be able to discover to eat on the bottom. Her favourite reinforcement is meals, by a mile. I’m a canine coach. I can have nice meals in my pocket at a second’s discover. (When do I not have meals in my pocket?) Scent detection canines are skilled on a regular basis to hunt out scents, alert their handler they’ve discovered it with some simply observable motion, after which get rewarded with a excessive worth reinforcement. Thus, my coaching journey for the month: Maggie is studying to alert me when she finds poop. (I’m asking for a sit proper now, however I’ll modify it if she exhibits me a special conduct that comes naturally). When she does, she will get prime quality treats discovering their manner into her joyful, clear mouth. As soon as I’ve the conduct established, I’ll put it on cue, and there you go, Bob’s your uncle.
There’s one other profit to this for these of us who reside within the nation and may spend a ridiculous period of time on the lookout for poop to choose up, completely camouflaged in brown leaves as it’s. Skip’s is particularly onerous to seek out, so… “Maggie! Discover the poop!” This all sounds too cool for varsity; I’ll let you know the way it’s getting into my subsequent submit.
The second subject this brings up, associated to Canine Coaching Month and Federer’s 54% successful pictures, is that the majority of us are doing the very best we will, with the talents we have now, at that specific second in time. And, typically we are going to come up quick. I wasn’t ready to make use of the very best a part of my mind final week with Maggie, till I bought some relaxation, and was reminded by Federer that the very best of the very best aren’t good. All I wanted to do was take a breath, get out of my very own manner, and use the talents I had to consider the issue objectively. As soon as I gave myself some grace, I used to be capable of finding a manner out of the issue.
Grace. I feel all of us want a whole lot of that proper now. If one thing you’ve labored on along with your canine hasn’t labored out, give your self some grace. If you happen to see somebody doing one thing to a canine that you simply really feel is lower than ultimate, give them some grace. Life might be onerous and scary and stuffed with challenges. Let me restate that: Life is difficult and scary and stuffed with challenges. Let’s let January be an excellent time to be good to ourselves, to be good to others, and to make use of our expertise and data to unravel issues which are typically solvable, if we will take a breath and suppose it by way of.
MEANWHILE, again on the farm: Skip doesn’t have bladder most cancers!!! Please leap out of your chair and rejoice with me, as a result of we spent 5 days with, first from our vet, “the almost certainly rationalization for his signs is bladder most cancers,” to “effectively, it’s one among many issues he might have, possibly 25%.” Skip has been urinating like a race horse (ie, for infinite intervals of time), his urine appears extra dilute than traditional, and a urine pattern discovered an atypical quantity of cells from the liner of his bladder. Most cancers was the first potential, however an ultrasound confirmed no indicators of a mass! Yay! After all, now . . . what’s going on? One potential, scary sufficient, is leptospirosis, a bacterial illness, ubiqutous round right here, that may result in kidney failure. It’s what killed my beloved Cool Hand Luke. Skip doesn’t have lots of the traditional signs (lethargy, vomiting), however we put him on Doxy till we will get extra data. I’ll preserve you posted, subsequent vet go to and blood checks of kidney operate coming quickly.
It’s been loopy busy out right here, what with all of the preparations for publicity for the novel. Up to now I’ve had the pleasure of doing six podcasts, together with Your Household Canine, Canine Fostering 101, Science Issues, Habits Buzzzzz, Barks from the Bookshelf, and Unleashed. There are six or seven extra to be recorded. I’ll allow you to all know when they’re launched, nothing but however coming quickly!
Nonetheless on the novel matter, there are nonetheless some autographed copies of Away To Me accessible from Arcadia Books. You may order it from anyplace within the U.S., I’ll signal, after which it will likely be shipped out to you on the discharge day, February twenty fourth, or quickly after.
However when you can come to an occasion in particular person, (please come up and say hello!), you possibly can go to my web site for the dates for my Wisconsin and Texas tour.
Skip’s troubles, an injured hand that makes it painful to sort (good timing physique!, and a firehose of labor on the novel’s publicity has prevented me from getting many pictures across the farm this week.
However right here’s a fuzzy photograph of Skip that I solely submit as a result of he’s ADORSABLE. I relaxation my case.
Right here’s the man himself attempting to get Maggie (out of the photograph to our proper) to play with him. I don’t find out about you however I can hear his engines operating. Assume crimson convertible sports activities automobile gunning its engine outdoors of the bar.

We had some pretty new snow–this is from a number of days in the past. Now it’s sunny, and lovely, and really, very chilly. Was 5 levels F this morning (-15 C).

Sorry I’ve to cease right here, my hand is screaming at me. Ah, wait?! A superb time to present myself Grace?
Grace to all of you expensive readers. Might your week embody as a lot of it as you possibly can muster.



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